Actually, the candle doesn’t stink at all. The smell is quite pleasant. The fragrance consists of amberwood jasmine, jasmine petals, sandalwood and amber musk and it’s made of soy. Even better.

What really stinks is the fact that I was obviously somewhere hiding in a cave or on another planet because I had no idea this was happening. I never noticed any ads or commercials. It was not until the day after when all the madness and mayhem that ensued at Target was blasted all over the headlines that I became aware. Of course by this time, the stores and website were basically sold out of everything in the collection.

Being the sucker for handbags that I am, I thought I would at least give it a try and see if this gorgeous tote was available anywhere in my area.

Surprisingly, I found that 2 nearby stores had “limited” stock. I knew this could actually mean they only had 1 left, but I figured what the heck. I decided to check out the closest of the two stores (less than 15 min away).

Once in the store, the Missoni display was not hard to find. There it prominently stood. Small, but colorful, and completely destitute. I swear I saw tumbleweeds. There were literally like 5 items left.

I mulled over picking up this cosmetic case, but figured it would have been a frivolous purchase as I already own one that serves it purpose just fine.

I reached for this vase, but I’m completely out of the decorating phase, so I quickly pulled back. Besides, I have more vases than I know what to do with.

I quickly came to the conclusion that it was useless going to the other store since someone likely would have snagged the bag before I got there; as was obviously the case with the store I was currently in. I decided to shop for some other things, but I kept an eagle eye on the cart of everyone I passed just in case they had MY bag in it. If I had spotted it, I’m not entirely sure what I would have done. I have limited to no sales skills and have absolutely no clue how to barter.

While browsing around the store looking for nothing in particular, I spotted another Missoni display near the office and paper section. Again, this one had been picked over thoroughly. There were a few candles, one picture frame, a couple wine boxes and packs of stationary left.

Candles are never a frivolous purchase in my opinion. Not only do they make your place smell nice, but they’re a smart choice to have around in emergency situations. I wouldn’t exactly consider $12 a smart purchase for one candle, so I put this in the splurge category; and an expensive splurge at that. Had to pat myself on the back for that one.

I’ve heard that Target plans to restock some items but they won’t be available in all stores. Also, some savvy shoppers have gotten hip and started offering some items on Ebay with a 100% markup. While I love a good deal and love to feel like I’ve been a part of something major, I have no desire to get hoodwinked. I will be content with my candle and feel good that I at least got a little piece of the madness without actually being a part of it.

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The case of the missing domain

by the 8th girl on September 5, 2011

For those of us who’ve spent precious hours (and in most cases, money) to launch, nurture and brand our online identities, there are certain things we know we must do to protect said identity. Bloggers and website owners know that protecting your website URL is at the top of the list.

I definitely knew this. In fact, I’ve always been slightly paranoid about some oversight resulting in the loss of my own URL. One thing I was sure to do when I registered was to set it up on automatic renewal so I wouldn’t have to worry. Seems like that should be insurance enough, right? Wrong.

Automatic renewal is only as good as the credit card and email address you have on file with the registrar. I learned this the hard way. If either of those is outdated, you’re basically screwed. I found myself screwed.

Several things led to the debacle that I found myself having to go through once I realized I no longer owned the8thgirl.com.

It all started with the fact that my email address had not been updated with my registrar. I have to say, I do not take full responsibility for this one. I’ve been using this registrar for many years and have registered at least 15 different domains with them. The email address I initially used when I created my account has been non-existent for the last 5 years. I’ve registered several domains since then and have used my current email address each time. In fact, I recall completely updating my contact and administrative account information about 3 years ago when I transferred a particular domain to another registrar. So why was my old email address still attached to my account? The registrar had no satisfactory answer for me.

The second break in the chain was because of the credit card on file with the registrar. Before my domain was up for renewal, the card had expired. I had forgotten to update the new expiration date with the registrar. Entirely my fault. Thing is, if my email address had been correct, I would have received a notification that my card was about to, or had already, expired. See the domino effect in action here?

But here’s what is so puzzling to me. As I said, I’ve registered many domains in the last several years with this registrar (as recent as last year) and have been receiving email notifications, to the current address, about their expiration dates. Why is it that I didn’t receive the notification about the8thgirl.com to the current address? And why was this the only domain of which I did not receive the notification? Again, the registrar had no satisfactory answer for me.

Of course, it all goes back to my failure to handle my business properly. Maybe I should have had some sort of list of all the accounts on which I have my credit card tied to so that when it expires, I will know which ones need to be updated. I could have avoided all the hassle I had to go through to get my domain back by taking this one, simple step.

Another very easy solution would be to use one “lifetime” email address for all business affairs. I’m notorious for changing email accounts frequently (for business and personal use). Had a lifetime email address been in place, the situation could have been avoided.

The funny thing is, I was actually quite surprised that my domain had been scooped up so quickly by one of those domain squatters. The bloodsuckers made me bid for the darn thing. Luckily for me (or maybe not), it didn’t have much value because I got it for the cheap and didn’t have to bid against anyone.

I do take a little solace in the fact that I’m not the only one who this has happened to (although I certainly don’t wish it on anyone). Many others have found themselves faced with this very same dilemma, as suggested in the following articles I drummed up.

Foursquare Forgets to Renew Domain Name

Dallas Cowboys Website Goes Dark

So now that I have my domain back, I’m holding on to it like a hungry baby holding on to her bottle. Maybe now I will be much more inclined to post more frequently. Maybe having it snatched out from under me was just the motivation I needed.

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Natasha

December 19, 2010

Since we’ve been experiencing arctic-like conditions lately (by southeastern US standards), hubby and I recently discovered how much cold air comes in through the electrical outlets on the exterior facing walls of the house.  The previous owners had left a few outlet covers plugged in; obviously as a safety measure for their young child.  We [...]

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Seven Sunday Sins

November 7, 2010

Sunday is a special day.  It’s not a day for “doing the most”.  The less you do, the more fulfilling your week will be.  At least that’s what I tell myself. Calling someone to chat when you know they’re watching football. You could easily lose a friend over this. Eating fast food instead of cooking [...]

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Twitnapped

November 6, 2010

Yesterday, I mentioned Twitter is now my new BFF.  It’s not like I was looking to replace the one I had.  After all, she’s a good girl to have around – especially in a crunch. This thing with Twitter happened gradually.  We met a year ago, but didn’t really hit it off at first.  I [...]

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This Week in Strangeville

November 5, 2010

When you really start to pay attention, you realize crazy, strange and sometimes, even wonderful, things are happening all around you. I started this week off on edge and slightly nervous.  The big Election Day that we have been hearing and dreaming about had finally arrived.  I knew I wanted to be front and center [...]

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Spewman, Part 2

October 15, 2010

Can I just say I ♥ the little girl in this video? I need this to be made into another movie or at least 10 more webisodes so I can see more of her. Hilariously funny stuff!

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Spewman Must Be Stopped

October 14, 2010

A lot of things have been happening around the world since I took a self-imposed blog break.  Clearly I have a lot of catching up to do, but in the meantime, I thought I’d share this funny video that so neatly wraps up all the propaganda that has been spewed over the last 19 months [...]

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Imma Let You Finish

September 14, 2010

It’s been a year since the infamous showdown between Kanye West and Taylor Swift took place at the MTV VMAs. Although I completely disagree with how Kanye handled himself and most especially the point he was trying to make, I think the whole debacle was utterly hilarious. Taylor standing there about to give the speech [...]

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The New Cupid Shuffle

September 12, 2010

I saw the headline for this video on the Yahoo! homepage a few times and overlooked it. I thought, what could be so spectacular about a bunch of guys walking around? Yeah, I slept on this one. This is what you call being in sync. I imagine all kinds of toes would have been stepped [...]

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